Quiz – Askability Quotient Take the Short Quiz Below to Find Out Just How You Rank as an Asker! 1.How often do you get to participate in your favorite hobby? I just started taking classes for my hobby. What's a hobby? I make it a priority to have some "me" time every week. 2.Your date starts texting while you are trying to tell them something about yourself. What do you do? I may or may not say anything depending on the situation. But I'll regret it if I don't say something. I'm secretly annoyed but don't say anything. Oh, no! That's not happening. He's going to hear about it immediately. 3.What is your fear level to tell your partner your dreams for the future. I don't feel like I get to have dreams right now. It's scary to be that transparent but we have had some great talks about it. None, they know all of my biggest dreams. 4.Have you ever asked for a raise or promotion at work? Yes, but I was nervous. One time I was turned down but the next time I was successful. Yes, I prepare and go in with confidence, making a strong case. I'd rather have my finger nails ripped out. 5.Who won the last argument in your household/partnership/workplace? I don't remember, what matters is that I shared my beliefs and we came to an understanding. I lost my temper and acted like a crazy person because I held on to the anger for so long. I really want to stop doing that. I avoid arguments like the plague. 6.Your new partner blows off Valentines Day. How do you react? I was able to talk about it pretty calmly the next day. I got it out there without it turning into an argument. I made sure we had a conversation before the day so that we were both on the same page regarding expectations. I tried to play it off like it was ok but then I started crying later and he couldn't figure out why. 7.You're frustrated with a lack of communication at work. How do you handle it? It takes me a while to get up the courage to say anything, but I do anyway and it really helps. Complain to my family and friends about it but that's as far as it goes. Schedule a meeting with my direct supervisor to talk about where I see communication breakdowns happening and offer suggestions for improvement. 8.You have a new interest in meditation, tarot readings and astrology. Your family members have never really been exposed to these topics. Do you tell them? Are you kidding me? They will totally judge me. I probably will, after a while, and only to a few who I know will be open minded. Of course, I'm so excited to share. 9.Think about your favorite activity in high school. What were you known for? Sports? Choir? Robotics club? Are you still participating in that one activity that used to be such a big part of your life? I haven't thought about that in years. I can't imagine fitting it into my life right now. I got away from it for awhile but have come to realize how good it feels to rediscover that part of me. It is still a part of my identity. I never gave it up. 10.How much do you relate to this sentence? I've lost myself in my role as parent, spouse, employee, taxi driver, cook, soccer coach, bill payer, etc, etc. and I just don't know who I am anymore. I recognized that I was feeling that way and am wanting to get myself back. I'm just not quite sure how. Oh boy, do I ever! Not at all. NameEmail Thanks for your time. Please check your email for result.